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David E. Roy  Ph.D.'s avatar

I have a lifetime marked by ADHD. I first saw it in my son ( but I didn’t catch it from him). I

Just found a book I wish I’d found when was published. It’s called, Scattered Minds: The Origin & Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder by Gabor Maté, MD. Through out the book, he owns his own struggles with ADD as well as his children’s difficulties. The book is filled with honest wisdom and suggestions for how to master this challenge. The guidance is not behavioral but through a deep understanding of what is going on and what needs are actually important to meet. At 82, while I wish I’d read it years ago, I feel grateful to have found it now.

Patricia Davis's avatar

26 years later the siding AND battens are nearing completion..It’s truly a hobby, perfecting as the money provides , from scratch meant felling the trees, milling the lumber and slow methodical improvements , the crisis currently -the pneumatic finish nailer 15 + years old groaned and gave up - but west and north sides are completed, shelves back up and what’s “right in front of me” ( that talent adding distractive normalcy gave me a real laugh!!!) …another ADHD cleans up the mess..gratefully. I’m so excited to realize this ‘shack’easier to heat . These improvements ARE incredible feats of accomplishment. We do it ourselves ,with occasional nashings and wailings, learning degrees of difficulty. Bravo , you two got gall! I know!

When we sit at the table …giving thanks…and gaze about…it’s amazing. Enjoy🫶

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